State v. Mr. R (DMC No. 16282) – Felony Sexual Assault – Not Charged – Gila County Sheriff’s office investigated (DR No.20XX–XXXXXX5) & Gila County Attorney’s Office “Turned Down Charges”.
Mr. R was a 64-year-old male at the time allegations were made against him. Mr. R had been accused of sexually assaulting a friend while at his home when his wife was also present. Mr. R and his wife had been spending the day with a common friend. They began drinking fairly early in the day and ultimately went out on the town for dinner and drinks. Upon returning to the home, Mr. R’s wife chose to go to bed and Mr. R and the friend continued talking about the friend’s new boyfriend. The friend had complained that her back was hurting her and that her boyfriend never touched her, asking Mr. R for a back rub. Mr. R began rubbing her back, at which time he asked if she wanted to move to a formal massage table. The friend agreed and Mr. R pulled the massage table out of the back room and placed it in the living room, just outside of the bedroom door where his wife was. Mr. R conducted the massage while seated and rubbed her shoulders back and legs for a period of about 15 minutes.
After completing the massage, he asked his friend if she enjoyed it, to which she responded “yeah”. Mr. R then proceeded to go outside into the hot tub and the friend remained in the home. Mr. R had assumed that the friend had fallen asleep, however, when he went back inside, he found the friend was gone, the front door open, and the friend’s vehicle was nowhere to be seen. Mr. R began texting her as he was concerned about his friend receiving a DUI. Mr. R then went into the bedroom to join his wife. The following day, Mr. R learned through his wife that the friend was accusing him of Sexually Assaulting her during the massage. A Detective then reached out to Mr. R, regarding the allegations being made by their friend.
Upon being retained, our Pre-Charge Team met and immediately began taking action. We first reached out to the Detective to find out what the specific allegations against Mr. R were. We also emailed the Detective a notarized Invocation of Constitutional Rights that had been signed by Mr. R. We met with both Mr. R and his wife separately regarding everything that transpired that evening. In the interview with his wife, it was discovered that although she had left the living room to go to bed, she was awake until just prior to her husband joining her in the bedroom. She indicated she heard the interaction between Mr. R and their friend, including the friend’s response to enjoying the massage. Also, during this interview, we found out that there had been text communication between Mr. R’s wife and the friend the day after the alleged Sexual Assault. Despite Mr. R’s denial of any nonconsensual sexual contact with the friend, a few of the text messages from the wife posed problematic for Mr. R.
After speaking with the Detective further regarding the allegations, it was discovered the allegation from the friend was that during the massage, Mr. R got on top of her and put either his penis or his hand inside of her vagina. In a detailed Trebus/Bashir Letter sent to the Detective, Mr. R denied ever touching her vaginal area, pointing out that no DNA was present in her vagina. Additionally, this letter pointed out that Mr. R was 345 pounds and his weight alone would make the alleged victim’s story unbelievable. This letter also listed Mr. R’s denial of the allegations, along with a detailed account of what occurred that night. It also listed specific rebuttal to information presented in the Police report which we obtained through a Public Records Request.
This detailed letter was also sent to the Prosecutor’s office after learning that the Detective had submitted the case to the Gila County Attorney’s Office for review. After receiving and reviewing the Trebus/Bashir letter, the Gila County Attorney’s Office “declined to file charges” against Mr. R and the case was “turned down”.